Punishment

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

Academic Decathalon. Basically it's one of those competitions where they test your team in various subjects. Last year we took fourth in the state.

I can't move. No place to move to. No money to move with. No time for a job if i want to keep good grades. So i'm basically fubared until college time.

I gave up on a good relationship with my father many years ago.
I tried unsuccessfully for years to talk to him and it would work....for about two weeks. My father's a rageaholic and feels the need to be angry all the time. When I was a kid he used to beat me and beat me more if I cried.

As for current status he was pretty pissed when he came home. He's back to his "normal" self now as if nothing ever happened. That's another thing about my dad. He's got some sort of hot-cold syndrome or something. He's like Dr. Jeklll and Mister Hide. He's either quiet or angry.

Overall I'm just tired. I'm tired of being that puppy dog that gets beaten around and yelled at. This was a chance for me to bite the hand that feeds me and let him know I'm not a puppy. Everyday i have to deal with my Dad yelling at my mother and I. I'm not an angry person. I'm actually pretty passive. My father's about the only person that gets me angry.

underpants · awesome sauce! Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 07 Jul 2004

Woah ultra you have BALLS!!!!! I commend you on that!
I use to get into fights sort of like that with my parents when i was younger, but not as bad. Anyways, my dad is also into his widescreen tv and such, but I would never ever in a million years think of doing what you did or have the balls to do it!
While you should respect your parents and all that jazz. Sometimes you need to stick up for yourself and not let them walk all over you!!
PS. i thought you were of driving age? if so i'd look into getting my liscence asap.

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

Silver Adept · Otaku Lord Age: 42 Gender: Joined: 20 May 2003

Ultra, this hot-cold bit might be a syndrome of something more severs. Have you had your da check into teh possibility that he might be bipolar, or something related to that? I don't know if something like that would help you get over some of the probelms you're having, but if it's chemical imbalances, those can be corrected, to some degree.

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

Silver Adept · Otaku Lord Age: 42 Gender: Joined: 20 May 2003

Huh. We're sorry, then... but we still think you should try. Even if there's a little trickery involved.

Tenshiai · Otaku Knight Gender: Joined: 10 Oct 2003

I also know the xgf of BWS-1 and I know that to do such thing her dad will only kick her out.

She only manage to tell him that she want to go as quickly as possible and he told her that if she do she won't return back, never. She don't have enought money to live by herself right now. He have cold heart so It won't be the good thing to do. He won''t have any regret because in his mind he's the nice one and she is the bitch. If she's out then it will be her own fault in is mind. He did live by himself when he was young so she can do too. Doing revenge only made him look like he was the nice guy again.

Be lucky all of you whose your mom want to take you back but not everyone have this chance. This girl already have big problem with her dad without doing anything. She try to revenge but then it was worse. She get in trouble each time she confront him and she continue but you can't live like this forever and doing baddest thing to her dad will bring her with nothing at the end, she'll be kick out with nothing.

You must think about the consequence of your act. If she do what ultrawolf do, her dad will dump her without nothing and she will not be able to finish her study. Also think that in these case if you sue him, you'l lose. They are the one in charge in their house. If they don't touch you then you 'll hardly win.

I'm really disagree with him on that. Is not so simple.

Your the only one who know your father and the limit of what you can or cannot do and you must try every solution you can if you are able to accept the consequence.

If you wanna be totally free then moving may be the solution.

Be careful, think carefully before acting because it can lead to a lot of trouble. Gather information on law and on the solution. I repeat myself but is not as this simple if your dad really like hers.

There is a good proverb about these situation:

'' Don't laught at the crocodile until you hit the shore. ''