Falling out of love

starlitdancer · Otaku of the Stars in the Sky Gender: Joined: 03 Nov 2003

Thanks. (And Sperrit, it's not a LDR - we both live in the same area. He's moving next year, though.)

This situation is much more complicated than I ever thought it would be. Some more things happened last night. Basically, we are getting along again - but my guard is up now, and it will stay up. My friends say to be careful, and that they don't trust him. I don't really trust him myself, certainly not as much as I once did. That says a lot, doesn't it? I don't know if he's extremely confused or if he's playing games.

Bleh. I want to know how I got myself into this situation so I don't do it again next time.

Omega Avatar · Rookie Gender: Joined: 29 Sep 2004

I Agree with alot of the views made by you guys...and Starlit overanalizing is hard to break you and i both seem to have that problem if it helps you to know, overanalazation is second quesing and that stems from any kind of insecurity..i;m not a psyche major but i've met with enough to know that keeping in mind that you have to live sometimes and to do that you need to take a chance..may "free" you alittle..

i hope this helps..if you ever want to comiserate or vent try my live journal Omega's 3 Cents (livejounal.com/)

Sperrit · Chosen of Earth Gender: Joined: 16 Oct 2002

My bad! Guess I wasn't reading as carefully as I should!
Anyway, it sounds like you've learned a lot from this and that you'll be a lot more careful as you go on, and really, that's what's most important: gaining knowledge through experience. In my opinion, so long as you learn something, nothing is truly a bad experience, and no mistake is half as terrible as it seems.

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