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Terin
Huzzah!
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Joined: 27 Oct 2003 |
 Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 2:14 pm Post subject: Times are a-changin, and the men are too |
OK, I've made up my mind. I'm going to stop being there for females I'm interested in. Nothing ever comes out of it. The hope in a woman being genuinely attracted to a nice, caring guy is a fantasy, and I've awoken from that dream. I'm not saying I'm going to be a jerk, I'm saying I'm going to be confident. I'm going to take on a "Hunter and Gatherer" attitude.
My main reason for this is simple, I'm tired of being a chump. I'm also tired of listening to chumps whine about it. (I'm as guilty of this as every other guy) The difference is, I'm going to do something about it. I'm going to put out an aura that says "I'm the one you want." Because it's true, women should want me, and there's no reason for me not to project that.
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Excel Zero
Suna-Chan's Brother/Mod of Randomness
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Joined: 22 Oct 2003 |
| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 2:26 pm Post subject: |
So ya wanna gout out tomorrow?
j/k seriously I did used to think that alot. So long as you aren't rude something will work out |
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Azurel
The Bringer of Levels
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Joined: 24 Sep 2002 |
| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 2:39 pm Post subject: |
I've been doing that lately, I did it during my Ocean City trip and bam! I find a girl. Granted I'll never see her again, but I'm pretty sure it'll work on local girls too. |
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starlitdancer
Otaku of the Stars in the Sky
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Joined: 03 Nov 2003 |
| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:08 pm Post subject: Re: Times are a-changin, and the men are too |
| Terin wrote: | | The hope in a woman being genuinely attracted to a nice, caring guy is a fantasy. |
I have to disagree with you here. I can't speak for all women out there, but I *like* nice, caring guys. The last person I went out with (er...so to speak, since it was an unofficial relationship) had/has those two qualities. Sure, we aren't together now, but we're still good friends. /off-topic
| Terin wrote: | | I'm not saying I'm going to be a jerk, I'm saying I'm going to be confident. |
(snip) | Terin wrote: | | The difference is, I'm going to do something about it. I'm going to put out an aura that says "I'm the one you want." Because it's true, women should want me, and there's no reason for me not to project that. |
Ok, I agree with you here. People notice when you aren't confident (I'm saying "you" in the general sense, by the way). |
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Terin
Huzzah!
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Joined: 27 Oct 2003 |
| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:22 pm Post subject: |
SLD, when I said I was going to stop being a nice, caring guy, I was referring to my approach. Sure all women say they want a nice caring guy, but it has been my experience that tehy want to mold him into that. Up until now, I came premolded, and I think that threw me into the friend-zone.
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kittenofsences
Otaku Dame
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Joined: 30 Jul 2003 |
| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:27 pm Post subject: |
:: hugs terin:: i loves you man.. and if i was where you are.. then id go out with ya.. but i cant stand long distance relationships :; sighs:: they suck and hurt the heart |
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Azurel
The Bringer of Levels
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| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:29 pm Post subject: |
I'll agree to that. Because I can't help but be a nice, caring guy, but I can definately work on how I get a girl's attention. |
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starlitdancer
Otaku of the Stars in the Sky
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| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:31 pm Post subject: |
Terin - I understand now--thanks for the clarification!  |
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kittenofsences
Otaku Dame
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| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:32 pm Post subject: |
truthfully for you guys out there... girls like the tough exterior (( not speaking for everyone)) and a sweetheart interior. Like a guy that wont disrespect but wont back down when insulted... listens... shares feelings. all that stuff and a lot more.. i cant type it all... |
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Ultrawolf
Mr. Roarke
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| Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 5:45 pm Post subject: |
| kittenofsences wrote: | | truthfully for you guys out there... girls like the tough exterior (( not speaking for everyone)) and a sweetheart interior. Like a guy that wont disrespect but wont back down when insulted... listens... shares feelings. all that stuff and a lot more.. i cant type it all... |
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