Faimly Issues

Bekuki · Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 8:35 pm Post subject: Faimly Issues

My mom and dad might break up.

To be honest, I saw it coming from a mile away. My mom's getting too hard to deal with for my dad.

And to be honset, me too.

I won't go into WHY, that would be wrong. But I have to make a decisicion, or at least start thinking about it. Someone in this family will be going seperate ways. I want to stay with my dad, who I get along with well. I don't think I could handle just living with my mom on a daily basis. No, I don't think. I KNOW. I can't be with her alone, no matter what the toll is to her. It might sound cold, but that's just how I am.

There are other factors, but at this time I'm going to keep them private. PRIVATE. DON'T ASK. If I tell you, I tell you. But don't ask.

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

I'm not sure exactly what to say but here goes:
I hope everything turns out well for you. This is a decision that ultimately you're going to have to make on your own. If your parent's do separate it might or might not be a hard choice to make. Personally if my parents separated I would say good riddance and leave both. Obviously you can't do this since you're so young. Hopefully your parents will work things out between them.

Excel Zero · Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 9:37 pm Post subject:

That would be optimal, to see them stick together. If not, I hope things work out as well as possible.

End of line

Excel

Tobias · *explodes* Age: 38 Gender: Joined: 17 Jan 2003

aye, im sure things will work out for the best, meaning that whatever happens, it will happen and will be right. I know its kind of a cop-out of advice, but its the only thing i can think of to help ya kuki. And i hope it helps. Smile

That is all

underpants · awesome sauce! Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 07 Jul 2004

Kuki!! We love you!!! I know whatever happens you'll make a good decision. You're a level headed woman.

shadokastur · Posted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 1:34 am Post subject:

My folks took too long to seperate.
They were miserable for years but for some reason stuck together. Maybe just to give each other more grey hair!

So if your folks do decide to split it will probably be for the best for thier respective sanities. You'll be fine and if you need to talk to someone about the particulars please PM me.

REY

RivaOni · Full English! Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 24 Sep 2002

when my parents split i was only 6 years old so i wasnt able to choose, not that i had a choice thanks to my step dad, you see he lost his kids in a court case, so he basically told my mum we couldnt live with them, and for the first few months we hardly saw her, zoom forward 10 years to when i was 16 i had a big falling out with my dad that was caused by my step mum calling me a thief when in actual fact the thief was her son not me, i called my mum and my step dad was being a nice guy for once and let me move in.

silverorb · Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 8:44 pm Post subject:

i have BIG problems with my mother too, kuki. if you need someone to vent or rant to, chances are good that i'll understand where you're coming from. i haven't really gotten a chance to meet you yet, but just keep in mind that i'll be here for you if you need me
take care, kiddo
i'm sure you'll make the decisions that are best for you

Fox

RivaOni · Full English! Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 24 Sep 2002

at least theres not a chance you could end up homeless, happened to me 3 times, the one above, then had a fall out with my step dad who thought i was taking them for a ride, when i did more around the house than he did and i ended up begging chixies mum to let me live with them, then when chixie had an argument with her mum over the whole thing that went on with our baby, we ended up in emergency housing (basically a block of flats, which are poor peoples apartments) before we got a place of our own so everythings good now