Ok tell me I'm not insane! :P

Cheshire · Hippy Kitty Gender: Joined: 31 Jan 2005

Wow. No hon, you're not insane at all! I understand. I could understand maybe if you said "Josh and Greg from school" but you will NEVER meet these two men! Why does he feel so threatened?

KenseiKurisuchan · Alive and kicking Gender: Joined: 17 Mar 2003

This is ridiculous! How can he honestly hold this against you when he's looking at porn even after he said he wouldn't? I don't know what kind of guy this is or what he means to you, but really, if he acts like this, then I'm going to have to agree with Wolfie in saying that you should dump him. Now if he does mean a great deal to you, then you should give him an ultimatem; tell him that it's either the porn or you. Catch him one more time after telling him that and break it off.

Sorry, this just really ticks me off. It's guys like this that give us all bad reps =/

reaper · I miss you Shar Gender: Joined: 28 Dec 2002

Maybe it's just me, But I don't think porn is the real issue. at least 90% of men look at it. It would be hard to find a guy who doesn't.

Excel Zero · Posted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 10:43 pm Post subject:

You're right...porn isn't the real issue...the issue is this horrible insecurity he has. Usually a little insecurity kept inside doesn't do alot of outward damage...but in this case it's different

He forced her to say it basically and now he can't take it

End of line

Excel

silverorb · Posted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:34 pm Post subject:

1. people like watching other people have sex, it's just a fact of life. we like it almost as much as we like doing the real thing.
2. if you can't help him to feel better about himself, don't let him drag you down with him. maybe he needs professional help. i got stuck once with a guy who was ready to kill, and being his personal therapist was much more than i could deal with. just don't let his lack of self-esteem drag your own sense of self-esteem down

Fox

Graillik Tur · Renaissancetaku Gender: Joined: 09 Jul 2004

Buy "If Love Is a Game, These Are The Rules." Read it.

If you are under the age of 25, don't sweat it, it may be love, it may not. All in all, your probably not in a financial or emotional level to devote yourself to one person for the rest of your life anyway. If you are one of the few exceptions, you'll figure it out shortly.

Play on.

whiteypoker · Junior Otaku Gender: Joined: 30 Nov 2004

Your man is a little b***h. I've had some problems-well sort of- with gfs who didn't like me looking at porn because they felt that in some way it was cheating. If your guy is of that mind set, that you thinking those vampire dudes are attractive is on some level cheating, then he needs to stop watching porn, because thats a double standard.

However, if he's just insecure about himself, which would be my bet, my advice would be to follow his lead. Watch porn and umm...explore. I would give anything if my gf's watched porn because it helps you understand yourself-depending of course on the porn-and it puts you in the mood. Girls, I live in a small town so I'm speaking of small town girls here, need to lighten up when it comes to their views on sexually explicit material. Guys will be guys and if you want to stick to your conservative morality thats fine. But don't gripe at your guy for you morals being breached-which you didn't do and that makes me proud. I suppose you can feel hurt but seriously take it with a grain of salt.

Try and catch him in the act...that would be hilarious. Devil